Life at the Speed of Mercer

True, it’s been quiet here at Adapting Creatively. But there is so much going on behind the scenes, there simply hasn’t been time to make much blog noise.

Two and half weeks ago, my daughter’s longtime dream of having her own service dog came rollicking into her life, tongue lolling, with oversized German Shepherd puppy ears and floppy feet and a little pink puppy belly. She named him “Mercer” (very fitting, as the Mercer family was instrumental in founding mearby Seattle) and he is already a blessing to her.

For being only four months old and having a LONG way to go in his training, Mercer’s basic personality is very calm and gentle. When he is exercising self-control, he is amazing. He is learning his manners quickly and is very, very well-behaved at the store.

He is far from perfect, though. He has fantasies of chasing the cat in the house, which meanie-mom and meanie-dad continuously interrupt. He is right in the heat of teething, with so much painful activity in his gums that everything—literally, everything—gets sampled as a potential soothing chew for that sore mouth.

Mercer’s favorite person is our daughter, A. He hangs out under her wheelchair or plays ever-so-gently with his toys in her lap. He helps deliver and collect her from the bus each day. A feeds him and gives him treats and helps reinforce his obedience training with her mid-tech voice output device (an ancient Cheap Talk 8 with levels...which she has to operate hand-over-hand).
 
The therapeutic effect on A from having her own dog has been nothing short of a miracle. She had been unable to coordinate her steps when walking, but her motivation to show him off to Grandma on Mother’s Day prompted her to walk with only assistance for balance for about 100 feet from the car into Grandma’s house! A had also pretty much given up on balancing when tailor sitting on the floor, as her severe myoclonus jolts her backwards. But if there is a possibility Mercer might come lay his head in her lap, she manages now to tailor sit for up to 30 minutes at a go. It has been about a year since we have seen this level of control. What a joy!

To top it off, Mercer was able to interrupt a myoclonic episode a few days ago with nose nudges and “kisses.” We praised him wildly for this wonderful feat and hope to shape it into a dependable service to our daughter.

It will be several years before Mercer is fully trained to do all the service tasks we’d like him to do to increase our daughter’s independence at home and in the community. At times it is hard to envision him performing these tasks, but it is critical that we start shaping these behaviors even now. It takes so much vision! Thank goodness we have wonderful service dog trainers working with our family to make this happen.
And, of course, it all takes time. Please understand if I'm a bit pre-occupied during these puppy days. They are a bit intense, but the pay off at the end promises to be enormous!




You're invited to Kelly's autism Bible Study (free eBook, too!)

Kelly Langston is a remarkable mom who also happens to have an amazing son with autism. She has just launched an online Bible study growing out of her book Autism's Hidden Blessings and YOU are invited! Her publisher is also offering Autism's Hidden Blessings free of charge for just a few days here, so don't wait to pick it up.

I haven't read the whole book...but eagerly and tearfully devoured the first section. Kelly is a committed Christian whose message to other Christians is one of hope and promise. If you are in need of God's encouragement as you raise a child with special needs, this might be just the book for you.

Her message isn't limited just to families having kids on the autism spectrum. No, it meets Christian families who face disabilities of all kinds.

If you are interested, please check out Kelly's blog to learn more about the online Bible study. Enrollment for the study is only open until Friday, May 4th, so you'll want to sign up speedy-quick. Kelly will be offering a light weekly homework assignment and open it up for discussion in an online study area. I sure would love to meet some of you there!

If you don't have time for the study itself, hopefully you will still download and benefit from Kelly's book. If the rest of it hits as close to home as the beginning section, I can tell it's going to be hugely encouraging and strengthening in my faith.

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Kelly had to close this session of her Bible study on autism and other special needs, but there is great news if you missed the sign in time! You can ask to be added to a waiting list for a future session. Click here for the link to Kelly's waiting list. She'll let you know when that next session is scheduled.

I encourage you to sign up. This first session is so encouraging so far! There are 400 parents supporting and cheering each other on as we claim the biblical promises God has made us and our children.